When Jeni first met her husband, Ray, she was convinced of one thing—she never wanted children. Ray, on the other hand, dreamed of having at least four. Fast forward over 30 years, and the couple from Toowoomba, Queensland, now have 16 children and two grandchildren.
Grocery Bills and Daily Life in a Family of 18
Raising such a large family is no small feat. Jeni spends $600 a week on groceries, a budget that has recently increased due to inflation. Their weekly shopping list includes 50 liters of milk, 14 boxes of cereal, 45 tubs of yogurt, and four dozen eggs—and that’s just the basics.
With eight kids still living at home, their daily routine is carefully structured. Between school drop-offs, part-time jobs, and sports, life is a juggling act. “I used to think life was busy with little kids,” Jeni says, “but I’m certainly busier now with older children.”
Chaos, Chores, and Keeping Everyone Involved
Even the simple task of taking a family photo is a challenge. “You need an extra-wide lens, and there’s always someone looking away or pulling a funny face,” Jeni laughs. But for the Bonells, those imperfect moments are what make family life fun.
To keep the household running smoothly, Jeni uses a roster system for chores. “When a kid turns eight, they get put on the roster,” she explains. From sweeping floors to setting the table, everyone has a role to play. The kids also learn to cook early—by age 12, they can prepare meals for 20 people with minimal supervision.
Laundry is another massive task. Jeni runs three full loads of laundry daily, totaling about six average-sized loads. Even grocery shopping requires two full trolleys, with one of the kids always tagging along to help.
Budget-Friendly Living and YouTube Tips
Stretching every dollar is a skill Jeni has mastered. She prepares meals costing between $2 and $10 and shares grocery hauls on YouTube to help others manage their budgets. “It’s a struggle for everyone right now,” she admits, “but we make it work.”
Despite their careful budgeting, raising 16 kids still comes with financial pressure. While they pay their own mortgage and don’t rely on government assistance, the Bonells do face criticism for their large family. But they have no regrets. “People have to do what’s right for them,” Ray says. “Having 16 kids isn’t for everyone, but it’s what works for us.”
Faith, Family, and Finding Time for Each Other
The Bonells are deeply religious and attend church regularly, but Jeni insists that faith alone didn’t drive their decision to have so many children. “God has a funny sense of humor,” she jokes.
Even with their busy lives, Jeni and Ray make time for each other. “Do I get alone time with my wife? Of course. We make it a priority,” Ray says.
With two of their children now married and raising their own families, the Bonell clan continues to grow. And despite the chaos, Jeni wouldn’t have it any other way. “Life is very hectic—but it’s good.”
For the Bonells, the key to making it all work is organization, teamwork, and a whole lot of love. They prove that no matter how big the family, it’s the memories, laughter, and shared experiences that truly matter.